After a day of long hard testing i have mannaged to get my entities load time down to 7min and under.
This is how i acomplished it Thanks to some Sujestions from others and tested it myself.
Turn all shadow features off.
Never play fullscreen i use 1600 x900 or close to that .
with this configuration it takes 5-7 min to load
My only thought is that when the enities load they incorperate all the shaddows aswell hence the large load times.
I hope this helps anyone who is experancing large load times.