The intended meaning was simply as Trenchfoot has just mentioned.
No offense was meant whatsoever, and I do apologize for my ignorance of the potentially offensive nature of the word in question. I have edited my initial post.
Please don't let it become a point of contention, or upset you in any way as I would feel bad. It's Friday after all, enjoy the day/night/morning...
My primary interest is in the original questions.