Kunra - I only know of two places in the MMO world where there is good crafting, and NO PVP.
Horizons (now Istaria) has a nice crafting system, you can even play a dragon, and the last I heard there was no pvp.
Wurm Online, on the Freedom Server NOT the Wild server is also PVP free except duelling.
The thing is that the most active crafting communities are attached to PVP because people lose stuff. Some games have damage to equipment, etc.
If you want the most active crafting, and you want to be part of a community where your skills are needed rather than just being something nice to have around, then you need PVP and Crafting.
But you won't be able to go wandering around solo doing whatever you want in a PVP world because the same people that make your skills useful also make such behavior unhealthy.
You cannot have the best of both worlds. Period. Complete independence as a crafter and actual need for your services simply do not mix well. You will need to compromise.
This is coming from someone who sucks at PVP and would honestly love exactly what you are looking for, but I can tell you that in several years looking, I haven't found it yet, and I have come to the realization I never will.
This is not meant as an insult, it's a wake-up call. You will either work with other people to keep yourself safe in the face of enemy threat, OR you will have no enemy threat, and fellow players will have far less need of your skills.