I think the key to any good MMO is to focus on bringing people together not putting in systems and servers that encourage people solo play.
On top of that the key to an RPG is the feeling like you are in control of your toon and it's progressing either through a story line or in it's own ability.
Znaiika, it really sounds to me like you shouldn't be playing MMO's nor should you be playing RPGs. You likely would do much better off with a single player game like Assassin's Creed. Where there is no real skill system and what they do have it's quickly gained and you don't have to worry about anyone else but you and your own storyline.
People play MMORPGs for the reason of being around other people, dealing with them in trade, grouping, adventures and guilds/clans.
I would love to see Xsyon bring in more combat and grouping options. Let us have reasons to be together and things to strive for as a group.