1) guy logs in ( its slow enough anyhow and analyzing )
2) gets called by the misses/kid etc ( you think its ok to let it log in )
3) you return to find its downloading and mid updating back and forth filee
4) you rave like a mad man ( or woman ) and quit out to log into the right place it seems instead.
5) due to semi installing/updates it says piss off lets carry on downloading now and installing to fix your mistake ( my mistake of course not the games )
6) scream blue murder.
moral here : "get the fracking basics of connecting to a server patch or game correct first time"