Regarding the 'totem time' feature: As I stated above, it is definitely not affecting the game. It's rarely used, mostly by a few players that log in anyways and simply want to provide a bit more support for development. Removing it, even for just one server, would be an unnecessary complication that would only upset the few players that do use it with no benefit to the game.
Regarding griefers: Before splitting the server, dealing with conflicts as fairly as possible was a near daily task for the Guides and ultimately myself. This often involved time consuming digging through chat and action logs to determine the truth of reported situations. It was a thankless task. We did warn players. We did ban players temporarily. We did ban players permanently. I did implement many changes to prevent, reduce or alleviate griefing. So much time was spent on this that it set back development over and over.
Things have been much better since launching the separate War and Peace servers. Most of our players just don't want PvP or conflicts at all. The Peace Server is for them. Players that want conflict and war can play on the War Server. The only group left out are players that want to force PvP and conflict on other players that want nothing to do with it. I'm not going to cater to that type of player.
Regarding the forums: I asked this in another thread I believe, but what forums exactly are showing posts from 2010 at that top? For me, none are. The forums are (and should be) sorted chronologically with the most recently updated threads showing first (below the stickied threads of course). This order, however, can be changed in your individual forum settings. Possibly your settings are sorting threads with the oldest threads first?
The most pertinent information from me is almost in the
News Section which also shows in abbreviated form on the
Home Page
In addition, when things are ready for testing or I want to open a discussion, I post in the
Developer Zone
With these links you shouldn't miss any info. :-)
Regarding Steam: The situation is not good or fair right now. I have some ideas, but I'm waiting for responses on the developer forums there. I will post regarding what I think can be done (with the help of players) in the Developer Zone and as part of a larger update in the News Section once I have some more information.
I hope that answers all your questions!